Friendship....

If there is any relation that has virtually NO problems in it...it's got to be friendship.The other relations, though blood tied, lack the strength that friendship has, moreover no relation is as open as friendship. It is better to have all friends and no relatives because friends are the people with whom a lot of things can be shared without much hesitation whereas the same is not possible in case of relatives. It is said that " A friend in need is a friend indeed" but I would rather say that "Friends indeed are the people we need". We can express all of our emotions(joy, sorrow, anger, frustration etc.) when with a friend, and the best part is we need not worry about the reaction from the other end because a true friend will understand every word you speak and every emotion you express. Despite this fact, people tend to think a lot about others rather than thinking about themselves. It may so happen that we may not like some particular comment made by our friends or we may feel offended because of some of their acts, yet we never speak out our minds because we feel that we might end up hurting them. This is nothing but lack of trust in the friendship. A true friend is not someone who will support you in every decision you take but rather the one who will stop you from making wrong decisions. We need to be as straight forward as possible with our friends because complications arise when things are kept inside and allowed to accumulate. Let go of your tightly held emotions and everything will be as fine as possible. Learn to lose and you will gain immensely, and when you gain, remember...LOSE AGAIN!!